My eldest sister, among others, declares that getting old isn’t for the faint hearted. It isn’t a barrel of laughs but there are things that can ease at least some of the worry.
We are encouraged to make a will, to get funeral insurance, and make an “Advanced Care Plan” however there are a number of other things to consider that enhance our aging. Many face leaving the family home and “downsizing” and may face living alone for the first time. Neither is easy.
Sometimes ceremonies and marking of the milestones can make these events more positive, meaningful and memorable. It would be my privilege to help you to make these occasions meaningful for you.
Some options to consider:
A ceremony to acknowledge the role the family home has played in the lives of the family.
Downsizing often means having dispose of treasures. A “Living Will” or gifting of treasures ceremony where you can personally pass a treasured object to the person you have chosen and tell the story related to the treasure. It beats leaving stickers on things or listing items in a will.
Creating a “treasure” or legacy for family and friends when facing end of life – getting older, having health concerns, diagnosed with dementia, terminal or debilitating illness – record family stories, genealogical information, hopes and dreams for others, such as your children, grandchildren or precious others, after you are no longer here.
Recording your family history and memories to provide a precious legacy for your family.
Funeral Planning- plan your own, or having a “Living wake” to acknowledge a loved one while they are able to participate and hear the tributes, eulogies and kind words.
I recently attended my cousin’s Memorial Service. The family had a private chance to farewell their loved one as he had been cremated prior to the service. His ashes and favourite hat were “centre stage”. The Memorial service was then an opportunity for others to express their loss and support for his family.